7 Steps To Achievable Goals
How many times have you heard that being successful is all down to setting
goals? It may come as no surprise to you to learn there is a lot more to success
than just setting your goals.
Most of us, at some time, have been told that an essential part, if not the
major part, of being successful is setting goals. If that were true many more of
us would be successful millionaires, actors, parents...etc. In this article I
show you why many people fail to achieve their goals and how to be successful
whatever you want or need.
1) What is a goal?
A goal is a target achievable in measurable attainable steps. It is more than
just a desire or a need and has an existence of its own. A desire or a wish is
less tangible and often just fleeting. Who doesn't desire or wish to win the
lottery with all its millions in prize money. Very few would not but, despite
the widespread desire, it is not a goal. A goal is a desire, wish or need
achievable by actions you can take. It is more than a mere wish or desire.
2) How to set a goal?
Setting a goal is a process which starts with an achievable wish, need or
desire. First you must decide on the following
What do you want? Where do you want to be? Your status, career or
qualifications?
A goal can relate to any desire, wish or need achievable by actions you can
take.
You then break down the goal into small individual steps or actions.
Achievable goals are goals where you can influence their realization and measure
your progress towards them. Achieving long term life changing goals is a process
of achieving, step by step, short and medium term actions.
3) What actions are required?
Goals require action on your part. You first need to decide what action is
required to achieve the goal. Your first action is always to always write your
goals down. Putting pen to paper, and this is one time when a real pen and paper
are required, gives your goals an existence of their own.
Writing a plan is an essential step in achieving your goals - without it you
will, over time, amend the long term goal to fit your reality. You will
eventually reduce the goal to a wish, and wishes only come true by chance.
4) Analyse the results
You then need to analyse, and work out in detail, how you are going to
accomplish each individual goal. This means writing a detailed plan of what
tangible actions are required to achieve each individual goal.
These actions then become smaller shorter term goals leading to major longer
term goals.
5) What steps do I need to take today?
Every day ask yourself "What steps do I need to take today?". By now it
should be all planned in advance so check your plan and make sure you take each
step every day. If you discover additional steps are needed add them to the
plan.
6) Review your achievements every week and month
Every week review your progress for the week. Check what you've done and what
you may have missed. Adjust your plan for the next week or month.
Your plan should always take into account what you will do today, tomorrow,
this week, next week before the end of the month, in the next 3 months, 6
months...? Always write down your results.
7) What if things go wrong?
If goals were easy to achieve everyone would be successful millionaires.
Goals are difficult because they move you outside your comfort zone to do things
differently. To be successful you have to face your own fear of failure and take
risks. There will be setbacks, expect them, they are part of the process.
If you are not prepared to take action towards your goals then you are
wasting your time. True success comes from the daily actions we all take. Using
goals ensures that all the actions you take are moving you in the direction you
wish to go. Daily or weekly reviews keep you on track and applying these simple
tips will ensure you achieve your goals
About the Author-John has 4 grown up and successful children
and recently completed a writing degree. He writes on a number of topics
including Building
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